Is it me or do men think I am that dumb

In the recent weeks I have been getting im's from some different men. This morning one of them just made me speechless.

We were talking and things were going fine and then all of the sudden he ask me how much a make a month I thought why would he want to know this but I told him anyway(fyi wrong thing to do) because the next question was could I send him some money I thought what the heck so I said no and he kept on asking why did I not care that he needed the money. I thought if you are that much in need sell your computer and stop paying the internet co. I just can't figure that one out.

Then this other guy that I have been talking to keeps wanting to meet me. I finally gave in and said yes. So we set a meeting up and he does not show. This has happend 3 times and everytime he has some excuse (fyi sound like a boy toy I use to know) so as in baseball 3 strikes your out.

Its funny the only man who actually was very nice and talk to me that I would like to meet has not im me in a while and thats ashame.

Polt from Poltspalace keeps telling to lighten up and enjoy life and I am finding that hard to do.

I guess you have to go the the crap before you find something good